memories

Lundes still has bitter memories of his childhood, but he’s also found a kind of peace with his folks, and has forgiven them for not being there for him when he was a boy.

It is one of many happy memories that he will hold on to in the next chapter of his life, to be spent travelling with his wife and doting on their six grandchildren.

“A special outing offers an opportunity to create new memories and celebrate together, while a personal care item allows dad to feel pampered.”

"Forty years of memories are gone... It's heavy on the heart."

He says the antipsychotics and antidepressants make him feel "zombified" and his memories are clouded.